Dealing with Your Parents’ Separation or Divorce
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Parents split up because of problems in their relationship. It is not your fault.
Every year in BC, thousands of married and common-law couples stop living together. This is called separation. When married people separate, their marriage isn’t legally ended yet. They still have to get a divorce to legally end their marriage. But before that, they need to make important decisions, especially if there are children.
They have to decide:
- How much time with each parent, and other important people, spend with the children?
- How will they support the children?
- How will they make important decisions about the children?
- How will they divide the things they own?
You aren't alone
It's completely normal to feel a mix of emotions when your parents split. Your feelings are valid, even if they're painful. It can be really tough with all the changes. You have the right to share your thoughts and ideas about things that affect you because your voice is important.
You aren't alone and you will get through this. There are lots of people, resources and services there to help you when things are tricky at home.


Get help
Get resource or connect with counsellors at KidsHelpPhone.ca. Text CONNECT to 686868 to access confidential support


Dig Deeper
Information for children and teens from FamilyLawinBC.ca has information on family law issues most commonly asked by children and teens.