Dealing with Your Parents’ Separation or Divorce

Every year in BC, thousands of married and common-law couples stop living together. This is called separation. When married people separate, their marriage isn’t legally ended yet. They still have to get a divorce to legally end their marriage. But before that, they need to make important decisions, especially if there are children.

They have to decide:

• Who will the children live with?
• What arrangements will be made so the child can see the other parent?
• How will they support the children?
• Who will stay in the home or apartment?
• How will they divide the things they own?

You aren't alone

It's completely normal to feel a mix of emotions when your parents split. Your feelings are valid, even if they're painful. It can be really tough with all the changes. You have the right to share your thoughts and ideas about things that affect you because your voice is important.

You aren't alone and you will get through this. There are lots of people, resources and services there to help you when things are tricky at home.